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3rd-Nov-2011 03:32 pm
thank you
I will reply to everyone. I plan to. I hope to.

I love you.

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3rd-Nov-2011 07:38 pm (UTC)
I really loved your post too.

I have always hated it when I was in past relationships, cried because I was upset and then got accused of "emotional blackmail."

No...crying isn't fun for someone else to see...but BLACKMAIL? I don't get people most of the sometimes.
3rd-Nov-2011 08:01 pm (UTC)
3rd-Nov-2011 08:14 pm (UTC)

Thank you for sharing that post, it must have been hard and I plan on not going anywhere soon.

Also I agree with what the first commenter, Gina said, sometimes you need to cry, emotional blackmail is something else and I haven't known you to do it.

Edited at 2011-11-03 20:15 (UTC)
3rd-Nov-2011 08:14 pm (UTC)
I wanted to let you know I read your other post, and I don't think it was a whine, in spite of its title. If you ever need to run away, you are always welcome. Really and truly.
3rd-Nov-2011 08:21 pm (UTC)
I'm sorry things aren't going so well for you. I care, and I'm here for you if you need me. Trouble is, "here" seems too far away to be much good to you. If there's anything I can do for you, just ask.
3rd-Nov-2011 08:54 pm (UTC)
This. Absolutely this. *hugs you tight*
3rd-Nov-2011 08:40 pm (UTC)
Sends hugs, and apologizes for not really reaching out to you and making you feel as at home in my town as I should have.
4th-Nov-2011 02:02 am (UTC)

*hugs you lots*
5th-Nov-2011 06:05 pm (UTC)
I want you and Batya to know that this isn't you, it's me. The loneliness part of it is a result of the limitations on what I can manage, and not the responsibility of anyone else.
3rd-Nov-2011 08:56 pm (UTC)

You're still super cool in my eyes. :)
3rd-Nov-2011 11:13 pm (UTC)
Oh, honey. Thanks for writing your previous post. I know how hard writing something like that can become when you haven't written for a while and feel that the people who might read it have no real idea of where your head has been for months. And the sad paradox is that those of us who interact with you mainly online only really get to let you know that we care when you post - but of course when you really need us, that's exactly what you don't feel like doing.

For what it's worth, though, I have been wondering how you really were behind the brief flashes of Facebook and Twitter, and am sorry that it's been so tough and you've felt so alone. I hope things start to get better now, and that we can help in whatever way possible from where we are.
4th-Nov-2011 10:06 am (UTC)
*hugs you*

I get the "crying is Bad" feeling too sometimes, but never about other people, always about me. For the record, you can always cry at me if you want. My supply of hugs is endless and I like you a lot and want to be there for you if you are unhappy.
4th-Nov-2011 10:10 am (UTC)
I read your other post, which was lovely, and I feel for you.

I get a sense that people are becoming more spread out online these days, kind of like galaxies drifting apart. I think it might be because there are more online social networks than there used to be, or maybe the nature of online social interaction is changing? I don't know. LJ certainly seems to be turning into a bit of a ghost town, and people seem to post a lot less than they used to, me included.

Edited at 2011-11-04 10:11 (UTC)
4th-Nov-2011 10:18 am (UTC)
You're so brave, and so literate, and so full of humour even at the worst times. You're bloody great, really!
4th-Nov-2011 11:23 am (UTC)
I'm so sorry things are sucking right now. Your post didn't read as whiny at all, just very honest - sometimes it's good to get these things out there.

5th-Nov-2011 06:13 am (UTC)
I realize I am probably far from knowing the full story here, but FWIW, I really glad to have met you and to know you, and I'm sorry you're in a difficult place. I hope, somehow, things turn a corner for you soon.
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